7.24.2012

2 Days in Da Lat

After our time in Ho Chi Minh City, we flew first thing in the morning to Da Lat. You have to love being ready by 4 a.m.! Because we didn't have much time, it made more sense for us to fly. It was a lot faster and decently cheap. I've got to say that I was not impressed with Ho Chi Minh City's airport. We anticipated a long ride to the airport, but in reality we got there in no time. So we sat around for a while. Most of the airport was still asleep. You could see people sleeping on the floor behind the counter of their shops. When it was time for our flight we walked outside to small plane that was waiting. The flight was a little less than an hour. We got to Da Lat by 8 a.m.. 

This turned out to be a highlight of my trip. I read online that it was a quiet town but people seemed to really like it. I was glad we went. We stayed at the Pink House. This was by far the best hostel/guesthouse I've ever stayed in. When we walked up to the door we were quickly greeted with hugs and smiles. Everyone was so friendly. Our rooms weren't ready so we grabbed some breakfast and asked about what we should do while we were in town. We jotted down some ideas of things to do, but didn't really set a plan. They were quick to start marking things on a map for us. We had also read online about a tour that a guy does at the Villa Pink House. When we asked about it, he said that he did do the tours but only on certain days. If we wanted to go we'd have to wait and go the next day. Originally we were only going to stay for a full day and leave the following morning. I was in somewhat of a rush to get to the beach! That quickly changed and we tacked on an extra day. Everyone raved about this tour so it seemed like a must. So we decided to spend the first day doing the main tourist attractions and the second day on Rot's tour. 

We rented a motorbike for the day. They asked if I'd ever driven a motorbike. I said I did.... a year ago. I did a quick test drive and seemed fine so we headed to the gas station. I will admit I was a little rusty at first. I was trying to turn left when I noticed something in my mirror. One of the guys that worked at the guesthouse was following us! He said he was worried and wanted to check up on us. I didn't even make it 5 feet down the road. It was a nice gesture on his part. The first place we went was to Datanla Falls. It took some time to get there because of my fantastic sense of direction. A lot of the roads seemed to go in circles so it took a little longer than it probably should've. At one point we pulled off to the side near the center of town and I just yelled at the closest person for help. It worked! They gave us good directions and we made it in no time. To get to the waterfall you can take a kind of roller coaster that you can control to the bottom. It was a lot of fun and something different. Once we got to the bottom it was very touristy. (Like we had been warned.) It was pretty, but small. It's something I wouldn't go out of my way to see though. Beside the waterfall was a man dressed like a cowboy with a horse that you could pay to take a picture with. I didn't realize it was like the wild west in Vietnam?! This wasn't the first time I saw this! If you walked a few more feet over, there was s cable car. We weren't sure where it went but figured why not. It was short and just took us to another waterfall. Actually, that one was much better and in more of a natural setting. We ended up with a cable car with 4 others speaking another language. What was funny, they were speaking Korean and certain words stuck out. For example, "foreigner". My friend was quick to speak Korean back to them. Their reaction? They pretty much stopped talking when they realized we knew anything they were saying. It was a good laugh. Once we got to the second waterfall we snapped our photos and went back to the roller coaster to head back up the hill. 

After we left Datanla Falls we drove our motorbike up to the Crazy House. I wasn't sure if we were going to make it here, but I'm glad we did. There wasn't much to do there, but it was a cool place to see. I've never seen anything quite like it. We didn't spend much time there before moving on. We had worked up quite an appetite driving around all day. We ended up at a small vegetarian restaurant that I think was the one recommended to us by the staff at our guesthouse. We got a little confused following the map.  What can I say, my sense of direction isn't the best... Once our bellies were full, on to the next site. We headed down the hill to the Flower Park. From the outside it looked beautiful. From the inside, just ok. The were some beautiful flowers, some that I'd never seen before and wish I could figure out  the names of them. We saw some funny looking animal shaped plants, but that was about it. We ended the day across the street at the famous lake in the middle of town, the Xuan Huong Lake. We rented a goose-shaped paddle boat and spent an hour racing random people and battling the wind. It was an exhausting day considering how little sleep we'd been getting. So back to the guesthouse to get ready for the famous 'Rot' tour the next morning. But we had a little detour. I couldn't find our way back. We pulled over to look at a map and a guy came up to us and asked where were trying to go. We told him and he said he show us the way. We didn't know where to go, so why not. We just kept a little distance to be safe. But turns out he's also a teacher and just wanted to practice his English. We found the Villa and parted ways. 

Finally, it was time for the tour we kept reading about online. We woke up early hurried downstairs just in time to grab a quick bite to eat and have some coffee then rushed outside to meet the group. Everyone stood in a circle, holding hands and introduced themselves. It was a fun way to start the tour. We grabbed our motorbike from the day before and lined up. Naturally, I went to the front of the pack. (I don't like to be in the back. You could say I have a need for speed so I prefer the front.) We all filled up and began our journey. There were 3 guides on the trip to make sure no one got lost. Good thing for this, we lost some within 10 minutes of leaving! But no worries, we found them a little while later. 

The ride was a little far out of the city. Some winding roads, but a gorgeous view the entire time. It made staying worth it just for that. We sped a long the country side until we came to our first stop, a cricket farm. There wasn't much to see, but we didn't leave before having a snack. Weird snack number one of the day. Yup! You guessed it, we ate crickets dipped in chili sauce. Can't say it was terrible either. It actually didn't have much taste. Mostly you could only taste the sauce. Here was where we found our lost drivers. They picked up a friend along the way, a weasel. They rescued it from another man. They bought him and left him in the bag until we could let him go in the jungle. The gang was all here, so back on the bikes. This time they were watching me. I maybe passed the leader and went a little too fast for there likings. (No worries though, I never wrecked!)

 Our next stop was a small market. This was a lot of fun. We learned about some customs that concerned burying loved ones. The celebrate the anniversary of death more than a birthday. Every year on the anniversary of someone's death they leave these children-like toy sets of clothes, money, and cigarettes to burn and pass on to the spirits. It was funny because we thought we had seen US dollars on the side of the road but never stopped. I'm glad we didn't because it turns out it was fake. But the families toss the play money along the road as the drive to the resting place for good luck. After that we went on to the food part of the market. We saw everything from fruits and vegetables to fish and live chickens. I spared myself from the meat section. A little too graphic for me. My friend and I spent out time buying some fresh beans to eat later. At the end of the market, Rot collected a variety of mostly tasty treats for us to try. There was a thing or 2 I could've gone without. 

Just down the road was a silk farm. We got to see the entire process of how the go about making the silk from the beginning to the finished product. As soon as we walked inside we saw a woman working with a bunch of silk worms in a bowl of hot water. As our one of our tour guides was explaining things and walking around, she came in front of me. I thought she was going to say something. Nope. Instead she popped a silkworm into my mouth! I can only imagine my facial expression. I seemed to be the only one that this happened to. Being the trooper that I am, yes, I ate it. Honestly, it wasn't horrible. Once I was over the shock, I kept walking through to see the different stations throughout the factory. It was amazing to see, especially how many of the women were wearing sweat clothes and it was ridiculously hot outside. We ended up seeing the how it ends. It's crazy to see it go from a a silkworm to a beautiful  sheet of silk with a pattern across it.  We had a short rest time and back on the bikes.

Also just down the road was the Elephant Falls. At first glance, you could see a few elephant statues and nothing else really. But if you walked over to the edge you could see the falls. It was gorgeous. The trek down was actually quite dangerous. There wasn't much of a path and everything was wet. A few times I slipped and was a little nervous. But it could've just been my lack of balancing skills. The trek was worth it though. The waterfall was amazing to see from directly beside it. Then I followed everyone else, thinking we were heading back up. I was wrong. We actually went underneath it! It was extremely windy and we got soaked, but I would do it again. Even though we had to drive around wet for a while. When we got back to the top I saw a guy that had climbed the large elephant statue for a photo. In my head, it looked easy to get up. I couldn't of been more wrong. I took his advice to climb onto the smaller one and jump. I didn't make it. I did a splat right into the side of it. And yes, it hurt. He helped me crawl up after that so I could at least get a picture. It would be a waste to get a massive bruise and not even get the picture. I also got stuck getting down... Confession: I'm terrible at climbing statues, but it probably won't stop me. 

After this elephant debacle we drove for a good while before reaching our next intended destination. We did make a quick pitstop to look at some of the coffee beans since it's become a large industry for the highlands of Vietnam. They're now number 2 in the world of producing coffee behind Brazil. Fun fact! Rot was kind enough to throw a fake snake at us and scare us half to death. This was a common theme on the tour. I fell for pretty much all of his antics!

Moving on, we reached the highlight of the tour. Rot's home village where he grew up. We drove on an off beaten path and came up upon some rice fields. We stopped to take a look when a truck driver passed by and decided to stop and see what all the foreigners were doing. He was entertained by letting us climb on his truck for some fun photos. Then kept on his way. We parked our bikes at Rot's family's house. His parents and siblings all live next to each other. His sister, a Buddhist monk, had offered to take us in and cook lunch for us. While she was cooking, he took us on a tour of the village he grew up in. He doesn't live there anymore, after getting an education he now resides in Da Lat working at the Pink House. (Lucky for us!) A few of the women invited us in to their home for a humous hour about their village. Rot had us speak their native language to us and vice versa. Maybe some words we shouldn't of said. But it was all in good fun. It was crazy to think of how different of a life it is from the one I know. Women give birth outside by themselves with nothing but a bamboo stick to assist them. Families pay in money, livestock, or jewelry to afford husbands for their daughters. Once a suitor is paid for he comes to live with the wife's family, Many homes were 1 room with as many as 12 people living there. But they were all very happy. I was definitely intrigued by all of it. They even shared a few of their customs with us. They passed around a hollowed tube with ginger in it and said to try it. Afterwards, we learned they also grind up mice and mix it with the ginger. So yes, weird snack number 3 for the day, ginger and mouse. They showed us how they weave and make skirts for special occasions like weddings. And at the end, with a donation, we were allowed to take a skirt. It was the best part of Da Lat. For me, it really put things into perspective more than anything else. 

After that we went back to Rot's sister's house for lunch. She made an insane amount of noodles for us to eat. It was impossible to finish. But it was delicious. While we rested before our return home, another tour guide spoke to us about Vietnamese culture. It was quite different than that in the village. She told us about how different tones can change a word to the extreme. She also spoke to us about the fruit there. She brought a giant bowl of mixed fruits that I'd never seen before like jackfruit, rambutan, mango, dragon fruit, and durian along with more. We had a taste-testing of each. Some good. Some not so much. The last testing was of "Vietnamese" chocolate. To this day, I'm not sure what it really was. They told us about a popular delight that is feeding weasels coffee beans and using their coffee flavored "droppings" to cook, dip in coconut, and eat. I'm pretty sure this is what we ate. But no positive. They just kept laughing so I couldn't tell if it was a joke or not. What are you going to do? Too late now. So we drank a little more coffee then began our drive back.

On the way back we made a few pitstops again. This time to check our the elephant mushrooms. We also stopped to free our friend, the weasel. It was a long time coming. We waited all day to free the little guy. We only pulled over for a few minutes then continued before it got too dark to drive. 

Once we got back we played a few games in the driveway. (Which of course I won a round!)  Then showered off and Rot took us all to dinner. He ordered a bunch of dishes for us and just said to try them all and didn't really tell us too much about what they were. Most were pretty delicious. But one I had a problem with. Mid-chew, he made a "woof, woof" sound. My jaw dropped. I've avoided dog living in Korea for 2 years. I'd been in Da Lat for 2 days and didn't make it! I wasn't a happy camper about it. 

After dinner we went to watch Rot sing and danced around. He was having a blast picking everyone up, including the big guys and dancing. We ended the night at a bar we heard was a good place for us since most closed earlier here. Saigon Nite Bar.  I felt like at any moment vampires were going to come out and kill me. My drink tasted like toothpaste, there were barely any lights, and the bartender just plain creeped me out. Needless to stay, we didn't stay long. I was terrified. We walked back because we had an early wake up time the next morning to head to Nha Trang. When we arrived back at the guesthouse, surprise, the gates were locked and we couldn't get in... again! I've never seen this happen before going to Vietnam. I'm sure it's for safety, but not great for me when I'm on the outside. 

We were able to get inside and make our way to our beds for a little R and R. The next morning I had a mini dance party/wake up session with one of the workers there who does break dancing while we waited for the bus that was late. To find out what happened in Nha Trang, stay tuned for part 3...

Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae

7.10.2012

How About Ho Chi Minh City

I'm sure by now you've all thought that I fell off the face of the planet! But don't worry, I'm back! And I've got plenty to blog about. In the past few months I've been busy not only with work, but visiting lots of new places. To kick it off, I'm going to start with my most recent vacation to Vietnam. 

Again this year I saved up most of my vacation days to take one big trip in the summer. Last year I made it to Thailand and Cambodia. This time, I finally made it to Vietnam. It's somewhere I've heard so much about and now I can finally cross it off of my bucket list.

This trip was a little messier than in the past. Because of some complications I basically planned this trip the week I went. I booked my flight less than 2 weeks prior and that was the most I had planned. I jotted down a few ideas of places that might be fun and figured I'd just wing it. I had planned on going alone because my travel partner had to back out. I was indifferent about it, but it wouldn't stop me from missing out on my vacation I'd been looking forward to all year. Luckily for me, I got some good news the week before and a friend from work was able to come. We set a rough itinerary which basically consisted of where we'd go and nothing more. The list began in Ho Chi Minh City. From HCMC to Da Lat. And to end on a good note, Nha Trang. Unfortunately we didn't have enough time to do the north as well.  

First up, Ho Chi Minh City!

I flew into Ho Chi Minh City early on a Friday afternoon completely sleepless. I've fallen into a routine of not sleeping the night before a flight because I always end up packing just hours before I go. It's a bad habit I should probably work on. I went a day earlier than my friend so I figured for the first day I would just explore and relax. Possibly catch up on some sleep at some point. I love how vacations are supposed to relax you, but in reality I sleep way less. Getting my VISA and a taxi to the airport was easy enough. The driver dropped me off in front of a shady alley and just pointed. I wasn't sure what I was getting myself into, but I figured I needed to find the guesthouse I book the night before and he was my best shot at finding it. He seemed like he knew the area. Fortunately he was right and I found my place, Siagon Youth Hostel. The people working at the counter were really friendly. They gave me a key for a room on the 5th floor. It was a hike. Between my heavy bag, a narrow staircase, and humidity a lot higher than I was used to, I was ready to find an air conditioner and a shower. Nope. Not happening. I open the door to a girl already checked in and not happy to see me. Turned out there was a misunderstanding. (I'm still not sure who was right.) But after watching her argue with the front desk, I just asked them to give me another room so I could settle in. So I ventured back up to get my back and returned to my new room on the first floor. I took a much needed nap and decided for the first night I didn't want to do too much since my friend wouldn't be there until the next night. So I strolled around the streets for somewhere good to eat. I found a place quite close that was in a prime spot to check things out. It turned out to have not only good food, but some good people. The waitress, a girl named Loan, was so friendly and helpful. She taught me some useful phrases like hello and thank you for my trip. In return the teacher side of me came out to teach her as well. It turned out to be an eventful meal. I spent the rest of my night with some people I met later at the restaurant at the Hard Rock Cafe Ho Chi Minh City for some burgers and drinks. It was a low key, but good first night. Although when I went back to my guesthouse, I was surprised/shocked to find the doors gated and locked. My reaction? Panic and bang on the doors. Luckily one of the guys that worked there was passed out on the couch on the other side.  I was even able to get a good nights sleep because the others in my room didn't come back until the following morning. 

The next afternoon Cat came. I browsed around the streets and found a good pho place recommended to me for a quick bite. Once Cat and I settled into our new room, the one on the 5th floor, we thought about going to the Cuci Tunnels, but didn't have time. My suggestion? There's a tattoo shop down the street. I was half joking, but we decided to check it out anyways. We spent the majority of the night getting tattoos. Who would've thought I'd actually get one. Bob Tattoo was a good place to go. We love our new tattoos! Since we took most of our time here, we spent the night roaming around the city and the markets. We were staying close to the Ben Than Market so that's where we ended up. It was fun to walk around, but we got there towards the end so there wasn't as much to see as I expected. But I was able to get a few things I forgot to bring so it proved useful for me. 

The following morning we took a tour of the Mekong Delta. The first part of the tour went through the floating market, even though we aren't allowed to buy anything at the market. It's only for locals. It reminded me a lot of the floating village in Cambodia. After that, we docked for a short while. We watched as they made several tasty treats, including these coconut candies that were delicious. They were so fresh and still warm when we got to sample them. We also watched them make things like rice popcorn, rice wine, and rice sheets. They use a lot of rice here! We strolled on down the path to have a tea party, small/play-looking tea cups and all. It was a kind of honey tea that came with a ton of small treats to eat with it. Once finished with the tea, we got back on the boat for a long ride. We spent around 40 minutes going down the river until we came to a more shallow and narrow part. Here, we got out of our tour boat and into a smaller canoe type boat. They weren't the most sturdy things. At one point, a guy in our boat tried to steer. He stood up to switch places with our driver and I actually thought we might tip over. Luckily, that wasn't the case. We got off in the middle of what looked like the jungle for lunch time. We were basically in the middle of no where. Lunch was good, but not what I expected. The trip sounded like there'd be more of an adventure through some orchards, but that wasn't the case. They brought out some fresh jack fruit at the end of the meal and that was the orchard, I guess. After lunch, I biked down the street of what I guess you could call a town. There were only a few houses here and there. Oh, and who could forget the kids that yelled every time you went by. That was the end of the trip. We backtracked to the main part of the river and made our way back to our tour bus. By the time we got back it was pretty late and our last night there.

To top off Ho Chi Minh City we grabbed some dinner and some street food back at the Ben Than Market again. Considering we had an early flight, nothing too crazy. All in all, Ho Chi Minh City was fun, but my least favorite out of all three places in Vietnam.

Stay tuned for Da Lat and Nha Trang. It only gets better!...

Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae

2.12.2012

Traveling to Taipei

This past January, I traveled to Taiwan with a friend for the Lunar New Year holiday. After the mess dealing with the tickets, I was ready to just go and relax, no more stressing. So finally vacation day arrived and I was barely packed in time. I finished stuffing my suit case minutes before leaving. 

There were a few bumps along the way. First, my friend missed the first bus to the airport. Then after waiting in long lines due to the holiday, we thought it would be easier to just get cash out on the other side of security. Well, this proved to be a stupid idea. There are no ATMs or banks on the other side of security. After running around in circles we kept our fingers crossed that the card would work in Taiwan. (Luckily it did!) Finally we boarded the plane ready to go, only to realize that my carry-on was too big and had to be put with the rest of the luggage below. It seemed as if this trip was doomed from the beginning. The ticket scam should've been our first clue...

We finally arrived in Taipei and found our bus. Keep in mind, we didn't plan out one thing to do on this trip. We figured we'd wing it and find things to do once we got there. (Very prepared!) On the bus to our hostel, we met another girl traveling who happened to be staying in the same place and decided to stick together. We also met a group of guys who had the most detailed itinerary I've ever seen. Everything down to the minute was planned. And yes we did take pictures of it and used it as our own! What'd you expect... 

The hostel, JV's Hostel, was pretty easy to find and once we checked in, we headed right back out. We met a bunch of others staying here as well and went out together. We went out on the town to different things like Taipei 101, the Modern Toilet Restaurant, ate some dim sum, went to the Shilin Night Market, and hit up some bars. I'd say the first night was a success. 

The next day we attempted to go to some museums and do a beer run, but both failed. Being that it was a holiday, it seemed like everything was closed. But that didn't stop us from having a great time. We went all over the city and decided to go to a hot spring. So, we trekked up to Beitou and found a ton of them. We walked to the top of the mountain and finally all decided on one to go to. We went to change, but couldn't find a women's changing room. So what did we do? We took over the men's! We snuck in some wine and overlooked the city with fireworks included. The best way I could think to spend New Year's. On our way back, I did have a small run in with a train official over eating food in the station, but that was quickly solved since by the time he got to the platform, my burger was gone. 

The next day, my friend and I drifted away from the group. We went to the Chiang Kai-shek Memorial Hall and the Longshan Temple. The temple was first. On the way there we ran into a group of drummers performing and people in dragon costumes. We couldn't help but watch for some time. The we finally made it to Longshan Temple. I didn't see any other foreigners in sight. I felt a little bad being there on such a big holiday when others were there for spiritual reasons. You can only take so long of being pushed around in a mosh pit before you have to get out. We wandered around the markets surrounding before heading to the Chaing Kai-shek Memorial Hall. This was amazing to see and not many people were around. Being that it rained the entire time, and it was a holiday, there weren't many tourists in sight at any of the hotspots. We finished the day with a visit to the local market and an impromptu party at the hostel with all of the guests.

The next 2 days I was by myself. People had either gone home or traveled to another part or Taiwan. I made friends with some of the guys that were staying in the hostel long term. One of which I hadn't seen until that point. They were fun to hang out with. I got to see Taipei from a local's point of view and eat at some out of the way restaurants I never would've guessed to go to. I even attempted to get a tattoo, but again because of the holiday, it didn't happen.

This turned out to be a great trip even with all of the hurdles and the rain. I can't wait to go back again! None of this would've happened without the help of my Gammie!

Stay tuned for the next adventure...

Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae



1.05.2012

From A Scam to A Plan


Me & my Gammie
I know it's been some time since I last posted, for that I apologize. Let me give you a little insight of the craziness that is the few weeks of my life, specifically involving my travel plans. My friend from college, Gabrielle, is also teaching in Korea now. We thought this would be an awesome way to travel together and what better time than a holiday when we're off at the same time.  


In the fall we began searching for places to go over Lunar New Years in January. We changed our minds and places about a thousand times. First we were going to go to Hong Kong. How cool would it be to be there for the Chinese New Year? Then, we thought to go somewhere warmer. Why not the Philippines? But being that this is a big holiday here, ticket prices skyrocketed. Then we looked into Guam. We've heard great things about the beaches there and a beach in the winter sounded perfect. Yet again, the flight times didn't match up with our schedule well and was kind of a long flight for only a few days. So we settled on Taipei, Taiwan. The weather is in the 60's this time of year and I've heard good things about the city. So, Taipei it was. 


Now, we finally settled on a place, we just needed a ticket now. We searched through, what seemed like a thousand websites, to get the best deal. After a few days of debating, we found a site called www.mytripfriends.com. The prices seemed great. The decision was made to purchase the tickets quickly before it was too late. A lot of flights were already sold out because of the holidays. We weren't letting this one slip through our hands. I had no problem sending my money and getting a ticket. The flag went up when my friend didn't get her ticket. We had to send her money a little later because of her work hours. She was unable to get to a bank and we figured the best way was to send the money to me and that I would make the transaction. We did just that. But A few days passed by. No ticket. No email. My friend called me numerous times asking me what was going on and I figured it was just taking a little longer to process. But next thing we know, it's 3 weeks later and still nothing. We both had called and tried to get answers. I even emailed them several times. Nothing.


About a week ago, my friend started franticly calling my phone. As soon as I had a minute, I called her back. I thought she had a problem or had gotten hurt. Something wasn't right. She tells me we were scammed. I ran to my computer and checked my ticket with the airlines. No records. I panicked. How could this be happening? Her friend found a link of someone else saying that they went through this website and the tickets were fake! 


I had a friend visiting from home for Christmas and was having such a great week. To be able to spend the holiday with someone I've known for a long time and hadn't seen since summer 2010 had been a highlight of my stay in Korea. But this put a damper on my mood. I was upset about losing so much money, but I was even more angry at the fact that these people had to nothing better to do than steal from others. What was worse was that I should've known better. I had done some research on this company and didn't see anything that looked bad. It wasn't until after we paid that complaints were being written online. 


For the past week I've been so upset with myself for letting this happen. That is, until this afternoon. I was at the park with my puppy when I got a skype call from my mom. She tells me she's with my aunt and my Gammie and that they were on the way to the bank. She also told me that my Gammie wanted to talk with me. She asked me about my plane ticket and I explained what happened. "Did you book another ticket?" she asked. I told her no, because I had lost a descent amount of money and didn't know if I had enough to spend on another. The next few things she told me were hard to hear. Once I could make sense of what she was actually saying I almost dropped the phone. Her gift was more than enough to save my trip. I couldn't stop jumping around. In fact, I was so excited I got home and realized I had an iPod when I left and didn't now. I ran back to the park, luckily to find it and ran home. 


Thanks to my Gammie, my trip is back on. I have no idea of how I'm going to be able to thank her or what would even be considered good enough to show her how much I appreciate it and love her. What went from me being so upset with how selfish people can be quickly changed to how amazed I was that some people only show kindness. 


So to find out about my trip, stay tuned to find out...


and P.S. I love you Gammie!

Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae

11.29.2011

I'll Be Home for Christmas.... Sometime


Living in Korea, I have realized there is one major downside. What do you think? Being away for the holidays. I'm going on 2 years of being away from home, which isn't a problem for me. I've gotten used to it. My college was a few hours away, I studied abroad in Japan, and I temporarily lived down south. That's no biggie. I'm pretty lucky as far as being away from home is concerned. I get to talk to my family on skype quite a bit, especially my dad. 
When the holidays roll around, I find myself homesick. Any other time, I’m surprisingly not. I've become really comfortable living in Korea. To me, this is home. Sure, there are obviously things I miss back home that I can’t get here. For example, I miss Primanti Bros., Sarris Candies (let’s face it, chocolate just isn’t the same here), and I even miss driving a car sometimes. I don’t even know if I even remember how to drive at this point. When I come home, pedestrians beware! I’m might forget that you can’t drive on sidewalks in America. 
Holidays like Thanksgiving, Halloween, and Christmas are such a big deal in America. The most noticeable difference is Christmas time. We have our own Thanksgiving here in September, which is a big holiday to celebrate. But Christmas time just feels empty. You can hear Christmas music in the stores and occasionally you find a mini tree here and there. But there’s no spirit in the holiday season. It’s almost as if they know it’s a big deal in other places so they jump on the Christmas bandwagon, but so many people don’t really celebrate it. So if you take away the music and the trees, it’s just another normal day. You won’t see Santa anywhere or stockings hanging.
As my brother said, it’s become normal for one of us to miss a holiday or 2. But missing every holiday for 2 years is down right weird. I miss the food. This Thanksgiving, trying to find pumpkin pie, let alone turkey was like trying to find a needle in a haystack. My Thanksgiving was spent eating Korean food that I eat on a daily basis. It didn’t feel like a holiday. 
Hopefully this Christmas, there’ll be a little more cheer! Stay tuned to find out...


Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae

11.03.2011

Tuna & "Elissaisms"

Everyone has their blonde moments and I'm no exception. My family doesn't even refer to my "moments" as blonde anymore. Calling my "moments" blonde just didn't cut it apparently, so they made up a new name for them. They're called "elissaisms". I'm guessing the reason for a name of it's own is mostly due to my cooking skills. Let's take a look... 


First, let's look back to college. It all happened in the apartment building where I lived. One Saturday afternoon I decided to cook myself some chicken fajitas and ended up with the entire building evacuated and a visit from the fire department. Let's just say people where not happy and obviously I played dumb as to who set off the alarm. 

Then there's the infamous "tuna melt" situation. When I was in high school, I was trying to be a good sister and attempted to make my first ever tuna melt for my brother, who was home on break. Being that I never cooked before, it was destined for disaster. And let me tell you, I took disaster to the next level. I handed the tuna melt to my brother, who then looked at me awkwardly and said, "what happened?".  In the moment, it came out wrong, but I responded with "I was waiting for the tuna to melt" which was not at all what I meant. I realized immediately that I would never live it down and I was right. To this day, I am constantly reminded of my cooking skills, especially when it comes to tuna melts.

Now for the most recent incident. This story also involved tuna. This past Sunday I was hungry and thought tuna sounded good and it was quick. I had some difficulties opening the can and when I finally opened it, the lid cut my hand pretty bad. I figured I would put a bandaid on it and in a few days it would be alright. Well the next day, my finger was still bleeding. A package of bandaids and 24 hours later, I decided to go to the hospital since the bleeding wouldn't stop. Oh, and did I mention, it was Halloween... So the doctor came over and checked out my hand, and after making things 10 times worse, he motioned for me to move to a table with needles sitting out. As many of you know, although I have tattoos, I don't do well with shots. So naturally, I panicked and tried to runaway. The doctor grabbed my hand and was nice enough to reassure me the it would be very painful. Thank you for the comforting words! I would rather someone lie to me and tell me how everything will be okay. But this wasn't the case and it did hurt, a lot! So I turned to my friend to help me get through it while the doc. so kindly gave me that painful shot and then stitched my finger up, but when I looked over she looked like saw a ghost. Here, there was a guy who was just walked in that cut off 2 of his fingers. After my finger was stitched up, we headed over to another bed and waited. The nurse gave me a shot to see if I was allergic to the medicine. While we waited, not only was there a man with fingers missing, but there was also a baby who was crying and couldn't stop asking to leave that had to get a shot in his behind. I think we all thought we were going to pass out at any moment. Luckily, I wasn't allergic and we got out of there as fast as we could. Happy Halloween everyone!

Lesson learned. Be careful when opening tuna cans. Hopefully no more incidents anytime soon. Stay tuned for more tuna-less stories...


Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae

11.02.2011

Gaga Goes Trick-or-Treating

Hope everyone had a good Halloween & got lots of treats. Can you guess what we are?? 

Stay tuned...

Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae

10.25.2011

Can't Forget Cambodia


Some how I've managed to forget to post about my trip to Cambodia! After all the trouble we had in Thailand and not getting to cross the Laos border, it was about time to move on to the next country. Getting from Bangkok to Cambodia wasn't the easiest trip, but it wasn't nearly as bad as trying to get into Laos.

We woke up around 3 a.m. and headed to the train station thinking we would just sleep during the ride. We read about first class seats that reclined and could double as a bed. No biggie. We could take a long nap and be ready to go when we got there. This was not the case. After barely making the train, we came to find that this particular train didn't have any first class seats. Every seat on the train was exactly the same with wooden seats, no air conditioning in the middle of July, and windows that barely opened. Oh, and did I mention, it was jam packed? I attempted to put my feet up and take a nap, but when I woke up I saw a bunch of eyes staring at me. Not what you want to see when you first wake up. On the bright side, there was beautiful scenery. On another downside, it took a few more hours than expected to get there. After we came to our stop, we hopped in a tuk tuk and drove to the border. Luckily, this time we knew about VISA scams and weren't fooled and kept on going. Gabe and I walked around aimlessly looking for the right place to go. This process repeated a few more times so I'm going to skip ahead to the part where we finally crossed the Cambodian border. It was about time! 

We took one bus that took us to another bus that we needed to take to get to Siem Reap. Along the way, we stopped for a bite to eat. I was exhausted and only wanted to grab a drink. They seemed to be out of everything I wanted to order and settled on some random pineapple drink. This turned out to be a big mistake. Being as tired as I was, I drank it without thinking and didn't realize that there was ice in the drink, which is a big No-No there. As a result, I was sick for the next few weeks. But it didn't stop me from having a great time during my trip. So we continued on our crammed bus ride until we reached our final destination. I couldn't have been happier to get to our hostel. It turned out to be a great place. Before they take you to your room, they take you for drinks and you can hang out and play pool. They also give all their guests a complimentary massage, which was needed at this point. Then finally, we settled into our room for the rest of the vacation. 

The rest of the evening we roamed around Siem Reap to see what was there. Turned out to be a fun town. Not at all what you would expect when you think of Cambodia. When we first walked across the border, what we saw was what could be expected for a poorer country. There were dirt roads, people walking around without shoes, and little ways to escape the blistering sun. But after exploring around the main town of Siem Reap, things were different here. The town was booming with foreigners (probably all there to see Angkor Wat too), bars blasting music, people shopping at the night market, lights strung above every alley, restaurants packed with people. It was a happening place to be. We didn't stay out too late since our driver was showing up pretty early the next morning. So we grabbed some pizza and headed home.

The next morning began pretty early. This was the day I was waiting for. Today, we were going to Angkor Wat. This place was on my bucket list and I couldn't believe I was finally on my way. Our tuk tuk driver made a plan for us and we went with it. We definitely lucked out, he was an awesome tour guide and fun person to spend time with on our trip. We bought our tickets and in we went. It was a surreal moment for me. You think of going to these places, but when you're actually there, you can't help but pinch yourself and wonder, is this real? We spent hours touring the many temples around Angkor Wat and the main temple that is widely known. The only downside to exploring the temples wasn't the construction, but all the kids begging for money and trying to bargain with you. It was heartbreaking to see. They would tell people they needed the money or they wouldn't be able to go to school. Needless to say, I bought a lot of bracelets and Gabe bought some sort of flutes. We couldn't say no, especially when they don't stop following you. 

Around sunset, we drove back to the city, cleaned up, and headed out on the town. We were a little more daring this time. We got up enough guts to try the fish pedicures. It didn't hurt that the guy offered us beer to help calm our nerves. He knew what was up! I had a little bit of a hard time putting my feet into a tank of fish that wanted to eat me! I like to think that's a normal reaction.  Eventually I did it and it felt as awkward as I thought it would and I couldn't stop laughing the entire time. The guys working probably couldn't wait for us to leave, but we stayed for about 30-40 mins.. Afterwards we treated ourselves to finishing our pedicures and got our nails painted. The rest of the night we bounced from bar to bar and learned what a beer tower is. I couldn't help but be curious.

The next morning we took off a little later. Our driver took us to the floating village. It was a ways from where we were staying, but I'm glad we went. It was good to get to see more of the countryside. It's crazy to see how different one country is from another. It was an eye-opener. On the way there, we passed one of my favorite places. We found a small lotus field. We asked to stop and walk around for a short while. It was adorable. I happen to love lotus flowers and couldn't resist. The only thing you could see for miles was one small broken down hut that someone lived in and a sign that asked for a small donation that was equal to about 25 cents. We dropped some money in the beaten up mailbox and took in the sights of the beautiful flowers. Then back on the road to the next stop. 

As soon as we got on the boat, what's the first thing they ask us? "Do you wanna hop in the water?" I looked down and the water was a dark brown color... Besides that, the floating village was simple but had a big story to tell. Our tour guide on the boat told us about all the orphans that live in this village and how hard life can be for some of these people, especially himself. He began to tell us about how he was going to school kind of far away, but doesn't always have the money to go back and forth and sometimes sleeps on his boat. I couldn't fathom a life like this. It made me appreciate everything my parents did for me so much more. And did I mention that there was an alligator farm not far from the houses and orphanages? But we politely passed on that one.  

The rest of the trip was just walking around and shopping. But this time I did decide to take a plane back to Bangkok and not a train. I had enough run-ins with trains and busses at this point and couldn't take anymore. If only it was that easy. I found out my credit card was frozen because I forgot to tell them I was traveling, my Korean bank account card didn't work outside of Korea, and I didn't transfer any money into my bank account from home. I was stuck. Luckily, my parents were nice enough to let me use their credit card so I could have at least one comfortable ride. The downside to this plan. (You know there's going to be some sort of problem!) I said bye to Gabe and the tuk tuk driver took me to the airport, only to find out I had to show the airline the credit card that was all the way in America. Great! So what did I do? I had to call my parents on Skype and have them show the card and verify that I wasn't lying. But this wasn't the last problem... I fell asleep waiting and almost missed my plane. Thankfully one person came back to wake me. I spent the next day on 3 flights from Siem Reap to Bangkok to Seoul. I spent about 6 hours waiting for my flight in Thailand being sick and unable to sleep on the cold seats in the airport. 

It sounds like there was a lot that went wrong on this trip, but it made for an awesome adventure. (Well minus the getting sick and sun poisoning parts.) I saw amazing things I never thought I would see and I would do everything all over again, even the fish eating my feet! It was completely worth every minute! 

Sorry it took 3 months to post about! Stay tuned...


Peace & Love,
Elissa Rae